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Is it cynical and be good for you?

Conversations in the night leads to so many strange things, talked with Jan the phone for quite a while now, he's so good, is always there for me. He thinks it's good that I am not cynical, I have the feelings I have, and that it is important and go through the heartache and feel the feelings.

igrun I'd wish I were more cynical, that I handled things better. How hærligt had not only been, and act, whatever I go Forward?


You see many people in relatively violations that can handle it in many different ways, some are very promiskiøse and utagererer with casual sex and wild partying, others shut themselves in with depression and melancholy and grow their own grief, while others only brushes to the wounded feelings and goes clear and full out next weekend and find a new wonderful man and spend time with. There again you have those who react with anger and agresjon.

I feel I am a mixture of all these, the level several degrees. Have a very biopolar tendency when it comes to violations, moving very quickly from independent and feel fantastic, until I suddenly swooping down to the deep valleys of depression.

But will think positively, and DO NOT fall for the temptation of cynical thoughts .. That every relationship I've been in the past, it did always hurt when it ended, but the things you did with them is priceless. You learn so much incredible about yourself, about other people and about relationships in general. You learn not to commit the same mistakes again, and you see the warning signs to get into a situation and circumstances again.

Maybe you should just date as many different men as possible a period of time, to increase their kunskapen, and learn to protect themselves from all the miserable out there. Build a kind of armor dating!

Then when you finish fitted with armor and weapons and shields, you can go out on the town at war, and go on a cruise in every bar to find the right man that can not be checked screw ups on your list.

Men to avoid:

Dependent men without a defined personality and self.
Arbeidsnarkomane.karriere oriented messing that values his salary no more than you.
Psycologi Students (uff so ugly they are)
Social retarded chefs.
Men who can not commit.
ALL with D & G labels in general.


Men seeking:

Kind guys with a stable economy, and reasonable working hours.
Those who tend to be over 25 and not out on the town every weekend.
Those who like to have lived in the village or town that has moved to town in adulthood.
Masculine men, who are confident in themselves and are open to their environment about their sexuality.
Faithful.
One who does not smoke or take snuff (which good influences!)
Someone without mental problems, but who have empathy and understanding.